6 Tips for Mothers to Deal With a Child’s High Fever
Six proven tips for mothers to manage a child's fever effectively and safely.
A child’s high fever can be one of the most stressful experiences for any mother. The warm forehead, the flushed cheeks, the sleepy eyes — it all sparks instant worry. Fever is often the body’s natural defense mechanism, but without the right steps, it can quickly become overwhelming for both the child and the parent.
The key to managing fever safely is understanding what to do, what not to do, and when to seek professional help.
Here are six science-backed, pediatrician-approved tips every mother should follow when caring for a child with a high temperature.
1. Start by Checking the Temperature Accurately
Before reacting, make sure the fever is real. Many mothers rely on “touch” alone, but accurate temperature measurement makes all the difference.
Use a pediatric-friendly thermometer and measure:
Oral temperature for older children
Axillary (underarm) for quick checks
Rectal temperature for infants under 1 year (most accurate)
A reading of 38°C (100.4°F) or higher typically indicates fever. Accuracy helps you track improvement, monitor danger levels, and communicate effectively with healthcare professionals.
Pro tip: Avoid checking immediately after a bath or after drinking hot liquids — temperature may appear falsely high.
2. Keep the Child Hydrated Throughout the Day
Fever increases fluid loss, which can lead to dehydration — especially in infants and young children. Dehydration can worsen fever, cause fatigue, and lead to dangerous complications.
To prevent this, encourage small, frequent sips of:
Water
Oral rehydration solution (ORS)
Natural juices diluted with water
Breast milk for infants
Signs of dehydration include dry mouth, fewer wet diapers, lethargy, and dark urine. Hydration helps regulate body temperature and keeps the child comfortable and alert.
Avoid:
Sugary sodas, caffeinated drinks, and undiluted fruit juices.
3. Dress the Child in Light, Breathable Clothing
A common mistake parents make is bundling up a sick child with heavy blankets — thinking it helps them “sweat out” the fever. In reality, overheating can worsen discomfort and raise body temperature further.
Instead, choose:
Light cotton clothing
A thin blanket if needed
A cool, well-ventilated room
The goal is to help heat escape naturally. If the child feels cold or shivers, cover lightly until they feel comfortable.
4. Use Fever-Reducing Medication When Necessary — Safely
Over-the-counter medications like paracetamol (acetaminophen) or ibuprofen can help bring down fever and reduce discomfort. But they must be used correctly.
Important guidelines for mothers:
Always follow the child’s weight-based dose, not age alone
Do not use ibuprofen for babies under 6 months
Never give aspirin to children (risk of Reye’s syndrome)
Space doses as instructed (usually every 6–8 hours)
Avoid combining medications unless directed by a doctor
Medication is meant to provide relief, not mask serious symptoms. If fever persists despite proper dosing, medical advice is essential.
5. Offer Comfort: Rest, Cooling Methods, and Close Supervision
Comfort plays a huge role in recovery. A child with high fever may feel irritable, clingy, or weak. Help them rest by keeping the environment calm and supportive.
Effective comfort measures include:
Lukewarm sponging on forehead, neck, and armpits
Plenty of rest — fever drains energy
Quiet activities like storybooks, soft music, or screen time in moderation
Cool compresses if the child finds them soothing
Avoid cold baths or ice packs — they shock the body and can increase shivering, raising the internal temperature.
6. Know When to Seek Medical Help Immediately
While most fevers are caused by harmless viral infections, some cases require urgent medical attention. Mothers should watch for warning signs that indicate something more serious.
Seek medical care if:
Fever lasts more than 48–72 hours
The child is under 3 months with any fever
Breathing becomes fast or difficult
The child is extremely sleepy, unresponsive, or confused
There are signs of dehydration
A rash appears suddenly
The child has a seizure
Fever reaches 40°C (104°F) or higher
When in doubt, always call your pediatrician. Quick action ensures proper care and prevents complications.
Why Fever Happens — and Why Mothers Should Stay Calm
Fever is not the enemy; it’s often a sign that the child’s immune system is fighting an infection effectively. The goal isn’t to bring the temperature to normal immediately — it’s to ensure the child is comfortable, hydrated, and safe.
Staying calm helps you think clearly and follow the right steps. Children sense anxiety, and a calm mother makes a sick child feel more secure and cared for.